Wednesdays at St.
Meinrad are days where we do not have class. Instead, our time is used to cover issues that are not considered "academic." The Church has charged every seminary in the world to concentrate on preparing guys to be priests in four specific areas. Those four "pillars of formation" are academic (our classwork), spiritual (prayer, Mass, meeting regularly with a priest spiritual director), pastoral formation (our ministry work), and finally human.
A large part of the seminary's task with regards to human formation is to help us seminarians learn to live out a vow of celibacy in a healthy and life-giving way. St.
Meinrad has taken a unique approach to this task. A lot of seminaries approach this issue from a more medical approach such that a lot of the things that are talked about or presented on deal with psychological topics. For example, a presentation might be given one day on how to help oneself or others deal with pornography.
However, St.
Meinrad has rolled out a new plan for dealing with celibacy formation which approaches the issue from a positive aspect. St.
Meinrad's new program is receiving a lot of attention from bishops and other seminaries, and word is quickly spreading about it. Basically, instead of telling seminarians in presentation after presentation about psychological or sexual pitfalls, St.
Meinrad's celibacy formation program has chosen to address issues that can help a seminarian see celibacy not as a cross but as an opportunity to be who God intended him to be.
Example topics that Jeremy and I will hear about this year are "parish friendships" and "how to be a good spiritual director." Last year, we heard about topics such as "being a better communicator" to "how to hire and fire." This new approach is refreshing, because it sees celibacy as something that gets played out in all aspects of our lives as priests. We still get presentations on the more common celibacy topics dealing with psycho-sexual integration, but the
Meinrad program has really helped us to see that there are a lot of ways that we live out our lives as celibate men, and those many ways of living out our lives are not just potential areas for us to fall into sin but are also areas for us to excel as human beings.
Today, our year long program of Wednesday meetings got kicked off with a special day of conferences given by a monk of St.
Meinrad who teaches at the Catholic University of America in Washington D.C., Fr. Raymond
Studzinski. They were some excellent conferences dealing with issues of celibacy. Fr. Raymond spoke about some of the things that he has found to be helpful in living out his life of celibacy. Some of his main points included being hospitable and also being someone who loves to read. He noted that hospitality, an openness to host people, helps us become more humble, and also invites friendships into our lives. Obviously, I am providing a very short summary here, but it was a good day to get our celibacy formation conferences off and running.
We have a big day tomorrow that I need to prepare for. Jeremy will write about it tomorrow, and hopefully have some pictures as well.
Until the next post, God bless.
John
Hollowell